Meet the Heart Before the Identity.
Privacy-first matchmaking for marriage-minded Jewish singles. Meet people based on values, character, and compatibility while remaining in control of your privacy.
Private Matchmaking: FREE through December 31, 2026. Beginning January 1, 2027: $49.95 every 6 months.
Choose How You Want to Participate
One account. One AS Member ID. Choose one or more ways to participate.
♡ Private Matchmaking
For Jewish singles personally seeking a meaningful relationship and marriage.
- Private Matchmaking Profile
- My Heart Profile™
- Structured Match Preferences
- New Potential Match Alerts
- Anonymous Private Messaging
- Mutual Reveal
- Application Review
- Optional Identity & Age Verification at no additional charge
- Optional WhatsApp Community access included at no additional charge
Beginning January 1, 2027: $49.95 every 6 months
◉ WhatsApp Community
For Jewish singles, parents, relatives, friends, rabbis, matchmakers, professionals, community leaders, organizations, and other caring people who want to participate, make introductions, and help Jewish singles connect.
WhatsApp Community is not anonymous. A member's name, phone number, profile photo, or other information may be visible depending on WhatsApp settings.
Beginning January 1, 2027: $19.95/year
✦ Share & Earn Ambassador Program
Help introduce Anonymous Soulmates to friends and communities, grow participation, and help bring Jewish singles together.
- FREE to apply
- No membership purchase required
- Application review and approval required
- Eligible approved Ambassadors may earn referral compensation on qualifying paid memberships
A More Thoughtful Way to Meet
Start with compatibility, build trust privately, and reveal personal details only when both people are ready.
Tell Us About Yourself
Create your private profile and describe your values, qualities, lifestyle, and relationship goals.
Your Application Is Reviewed
Applications are reviewed with care so the community stays purposeful and marriage-minded.
Discover & Connect Privately
Explore compatible Heart Profiles and begin private communication while sensitive personal information remains protected.
Reveal More When You Are Both Ready
Approved personal information is shared through Mutual Reveal according to the platform privacy rules.
Meet the Person Before the Picture
My Heart Profile™ is a shareable anonymous introduction designed to shift attention toward values, personality, goals, character, lifestyle, and compatibility before identity becomes the focus. You can optionally share it with family, friends, rabbis, matchmakers, or community to expand your matchmaking circle without exposing protected personal information.
Values. Character. Lifestyle. Goals. Compatibility.
Your Privacy Is Part of the Promise
Your heart can be discovered without putting your identity on public display.
🔒 Private by Default
Names, photos, contact information, and identifying details stay protected until you choose to share them.
✓ Reviewed Community
Applications are reviewed, so members join a purposeful, marriage-minded community.
♡ Heart Before Appearance
Compatibility starts with values, character, and goals rather than photos.
✎ You Decide What to Reveal
Every disclosure is your choice, made at your own pace.
♡ Mutual Reveal
Personal details are disclosed only when both people agree.
✦ Marriage Focused
The community is built for people seeking meaningful relationships and marriage.
What Makes Anonymous Soulmates Different
A different starting point for Jewish matchmaking, built around character and community.
♡ Heart-First Profiles
No public dating profile for strangers to browse. Compatibility starts with values, character, and goals.
🔒 Private Before Public
Personal details stay protected until both people choose to share them through Mutual Reveal.
⚖ Match Preferences
Structured preferences and compatibility-based discovery respect what matters to you.
💬 Anonymous Private Messaging
Get to know someone through private, anonymous messaging before sharing identity.
⚑ New Potential Match Alerts
Know when a new potential match is available, so you never miss a promising introduction.
♡ Mutual Reveal
Approved personal information is shared only when both people agree.
✓ Application Review
Every application is reviewed with care, keeping the community purposeful.
👤 Optional Identity & Age Verification
Build more trust with Optional Identity & Age Verification at no additional charge. Verification is optional and included with Private Matchmaking.
Matchmaking Works Better When a Community Cares
Parents, friends, rabbis, matchmakers, professionals, and community members all have a role to play in helping singles find each other.
We can encourage. We can introduce. We can open doors. But the next step belongs to the single.
The WhatsApp Community is free through December 31, 2026, then $19.95/year. WhatsApp is not anonymous: names, phone numbers, and photos may be visible depending on WhatsApp settings. You never need WhatsApp to use Private Matchmaking.
Help Create More Opportunities for Jewish Singles
The Share & Earn Ambassador Program is free to apply and open to appropriate members of the greater Jewish community worldwide, whether or not they are Anonymous Soulmates members. Approved Ambassadors can share a personal referral link, help bring Jewish singles together, earn referral compensation on eligible paid memberships, and measure the impact they create.
Thoughtful Guidance for the Journey
Useful guidance for singles and the people who care about helping them.
How Jewish Matchmaking Works
A practical introduction to serious Jewish matchmaking, compatibility, privacy, and taking the next step.
Read the Guide →Jewish Dating Safety & Privacy
Practical ways to protect personal information while building trust in a serious relationship.
Explore Safety →Helping Someone Find a Match
Guidance for parents, friends, rabbis, matchmakers, and Ambassadors who want to help respectfully.
Community Guidance →Frequently Asked Questions
Clear answers about how Anonymous Soulmates works.
What is Anonymous Soulmates?
Anonymous Soulmates is a privacy-first Jewish matchmaking and community platform for singles seeking meaningful relationships and marriage. Members get to know character, values, and compatibility before personal identity becomes the focus.
Who can join?
Jewish singles seeking a meaningful relationship or marriage can join Private Matchmaking. The WhatsApp Community also welcomes parents, friends, relatives, rabbis, matchmakers, professionals, and other caring community members who want to help. You do not need to be single to join the WhatsApp Community.
What does Private Matchmaking cost?
Private Matchmaking is FREE through December 31, 2026. Beginning January 1, 2027, Private Matchmaking is $49.95 every 6 months. Optional Identity & Age Verification is included at no extra charge.
What does the WhatsApp Community cost?
The WhatsApp Community is FREE through December 31, 2026. Beginning January 1, 2027, WhatsApp Community Membership is $19.95 per year. Private Matchmaking members can add WhatsApp Community access at no extra charge if they explicitly opt in.
Is Identity & Age Verification required?
Build more trust with Optional Identity & Age Verification at no additional charge. Identity & Age Verification is optional for Private Matchmaking and is included at no additional charge. A member who completes verification can display an approved verification badge.
Is the WhatsApp Community anonymous?
No. WhatsApp Community is not anonymous. A member's name, phone number, profile photo, or other information may be visible depending on WhatsApp settings. Private Matchmaking, by contrast, is privacy-first and anonymous by default.
What is My Heart Profile™?
My Heart Profile™ is a shareable anonymous introduction emphasizing values, character, lifestyle, personality, goals, and compatibility while keeping sensitive personal information protected until an approved Mutual Reveal. Sharing is optional, and members may share it with family, friends, rabbis, matchmakers, WhatsApp groups, or social media to expand their matchmaking circle.
What is Mutual Reveal?
Mutual Reveal is the controlled process through which approved personal information can be shared. Both people must agree before personal details are disclosed, so each step happens at a pace both people choose.
Your Next Introduction Could Begin Here
Whether you are searching for your soulmate or helping someone you care about, Anonymous Soulmates gives you a thoughtful way to take the next step.